Well, I’ll tell ya!
Coaching is about helping the client to be able to identify the “core beliefs” they carry in their minds, both consciously and sub-consciously. Then to “weed out” (of the metaphorical garden of their lives) the ones which are keeping the client stuck in unhappy situations, unfulfilling jobs/careers, harmful, unloving or respectful relationships, etc. After weeding the limiting or deleterious thoughts OUT, the client then learns how to turn that negative thought into a “growing edge ” positive and very personal affirmation. Then to “Practice” saying that until it integrates into their lives. When it does, the client will begin to see their lives shift in a much better direction. They begin to manifest outcomes that are pleasing! Oh, how amazing! And really quite simple once one knows what to do and actually DOES IT!
So, how this applies to my bear sighting; I have been “practicing” my positive affirmations, as usual, but it seems that there has been a quickening in my ability to create, or manifest that which I am affirming positively! This week of my 66th birthday, I have experienced things coming to me, that I have wanted to have in my life. The more positive I was in my daily living, the more I attracted what I needed or preferred. The more grateful I was for finding things, seeing things, or experiencing things, more more “other” things began to come in.
For example, I have been affirming that I am “peaceful” at heart, (a turn around from being “anxious” about life in general, certain people I love very much who I get concerned about, the crazy world political situations, the people who are suffering all over the world from various calamities like hunger or earth quakes or quacky government officials and their lust for power and war, all this, etc.) The result is I have been letting go of the anxiety, realizing , of course, that I can change only myself and must truly leave the rest of it up to the Universe/God and the other individuals, to be taken care of in their own ways in divine timing. It really is all about Trusting the Universe. (Gosh, it got along all these million or billions of years without me, so I guess it will continue on doing whatever it’s perfect bigger plan is!)
I manifested parts of things in my home which had been missing, misplaced, maybe thrown out, I did not know. Parts to gadgets, cords to phone/camera to computer, etc. I found papers I needed, lids to pots, and some old photos (always a treat!) I found lost earrings to complete the pairs. I got my printer working the right way after years of it NOT doing so. I found just the right buyer for two displays that had been taking up precious space in my garage. That was a win win. A former coaching client came back for a “refresher-reminder” session . (He had been on my mind of late.) And, I was reminded how many really good, loving, caring people are in my life in a peripheral way. Well over 100 of them reached out to me on my birthday, and it felt very good to be contacted.
And then there was “the bear”. I love nature; the earth, plants, sky, cloud formations, the insects and animals. It is all just so really fascinating, cool, fun, interesting and awesome to me; their physical appearances, their life cycles, their determination to live and survive. But the bear is particularly exciting for me to see. Where I grew up, there were no bear, so it is different to be living in the black bear capital of Connecticut! The cub was running down a large, emerald green spring, hilly field of grass. Maybe 2 years old, and just flying, fully free and having FUN! It gave me joy to see the cub.
So what is it that bring you joy? What do you see in your life daily, what do you do or who do you interact with that bring you joy? Are you allowing joy in? Are you able to identify thoughts that limit you and the joy you were meant to experience in your life? Can you then turn them around into positive affirmations and then eventually feel the joyous fulfillment of experiencing that which you want and prefer in your precious life?
If you need some help with manifesting a life more in alignment with “juice and joy”, your higher self’s desires for you, contact me and I will do a complimentary coaching session with you over the phone or here in my home office if you live near by. There is no reason to keep living in unhappiness or unfulfillment , in denial of your soul’s true calling in this lifetime. We were designed to experience all the emotions, including JOY. Too many settle for “oh, I’m “hangin’ in there”. “I am o.k”. “I can deal with it.” “I am still above ground, so must be o.k.”
No, not o.k. Most people stay in such life experiences because they don’t know that anything else is possible. They don’t realize that they have the ability to re-create their life experiences and get from where they are, stuck in some not so appealing way, to where they would rather be. I remember reading in the Bible; “My people die for lack of knowledge” and I know that is so. People all around , dying slow, quiet, emotional deaths, because they do not know that they have an alternative. That is surely a sad, depressing thought, but also one that can and must be changed. People need to learn that there is such a thing as healing, becoming free of the past conditioning that was likely the culprit as to why they are living the way they have, limited, hurting, dealing, dragging themselves through each day.
Coaching is one healthy alternative to staying stuck in the muck; avoiding joy, and dealing instead of healing. It is the one which helped me most in my life, and inspired me to become a life coach. I have seen it help hundreds of others in big ways. If you want to know a bit more, check out my life coaching website;
http://www.coachjeanneprom.com
And now, I feel I am complete with this, so will shower and go about to see what my next manifestation of goodness will be!
Brightest Blessings to you, Jeanne
Coach; Jeanne Prom 